Hey Ladies, I'm in a pickle. Bit of a back story. I was with my ex for just over a year found out we were pregnant and a month later he cheated on me twice. I didn't know at the time. A few weeks later he left and left me pregnant he went back to his ex and didn't hear from him at all for 6 month's. I had bub and thought I'd do the right thing and let him know bub was born ect..., We full on started talking again and got close again was sleeping together ect and then last week we had a huge fight and said the most hurtful words to me. He called up that day and the next day to apologize for being so mean to me. Spoke to him Friday just gone But now has toatlly stopped talking to me. It's upset me as I don't know where I stand and don't know what to do. How do I fully let go? It's really affecting my mental health.
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You decide you deserve better and someone that would treat you that way doesn’t deserve to be in your life.
Then you get counselling so you rebuild your self esteem and counter the thoughts in your head that tell you that you should be with him.
Do lots of research into what a healthy relationship looks like with yourself, and with someone else. You can find lots of good information on YouTube in the way of TED Talks, and on FB/Instagram/online from Annie C White, Matthew Hussey, Sean Whalen, Aaron Cartwright (Mindset Educator), and Dr John Demartini to start off with.
Get counselling or get a life coach if you feel like you need someone to steer you in the right direction :-) But change definitely starts with YOU - you got this! :-) We're here to support you Xx
You'll realise he doesnt love yo u and won't treat you properly. All the good doesn't mean anything when the bad is so hurtful. He doesn't love you how you deserve so stop giving it your time.