How do u leave with no money, technically no car and nowhere to go? I truly love my partner but I rely on him 100% financially we have a toddlee together and I have 2 kiss to a previous relationship. He's an awesome partner any day of the week but every time I have my kids he turns into an asshole and makes us all feel unwelcome n not wanted. I am over the mental headfuk of it every school holidays especially when there plenty years worth of holidays to come. How do u leave with no family close by? How do u leave with no money? I technically don't have a car as its his what do u do?
How do u leave with no money or nothing?
How do u leave with no money or nothing?
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Start to get independent. Go to Centrelink or womens centre and ask for help, and how people do it and what help is available.
I would look for a house to rent that is walkable to shops and school, or on a public transport line.
Get a job. Get back some independence
Need money = get a job.
Childcare and work, what most of us do.
Single mum here.
Why does he turn in to an asshole?
He knew you had kids when you started dating. If he can't love your kids, he has no right to be in your life. Your kids come first.
Can your children's other parent help you or at least help you to get out?
Contact centrelink and ask to talk to one of their social workers.
I really don't understand people that date single parents and then expect not to have the children involved. I was so happy to meet my stepson and we was and is always apart of our family. He has 2 half siblings and I will always want him to be apart of their lives
I would plan to leave. Get a job to start with, start applying to rentals and if you can afford it look at a second hand car that can get you from A to B. Doesn’t have to be fancy. No one should be making your kids feel uncomfortable.
So you say he changes when your children are around? How do your children treat him? How do you treat him!? If the children are assholes and make him feel like crap, I’d be like him and make it known!
Get a job! That’s how you get money.