I think I made a terrible mistake last night regarding my 19year olds daughters boyfriend. I told her what I thought of him.
Quick back story, they have been going out for 2yrs, she lives at home with me, neither completed school (which I'm disappointed with but ultimately her choice) he is over our house regularly eats and stays the night. She's never invited to his. I feel I have to say that they are both quite young in their mentality, most definitely not 'normal teenagers' neither have any friends other than each other, even though I tried to get my daughter interested in other things. Youth groups, sports etc she just wasn't interested. They are all each other has. It's frustrating. His mum seems to be quite controlling of him much to my daughter's frustration. He does nothing but sits at home or is at our house. He has admitted he likes doing nothing and is in no hurry to do anything. At all. He's going nowhere fast. Even before coronavirus and isolation
They fight quite a bit and yesterday I had enough I told my daughter exactly what I think of him and that I don't know how she can continue like this. She broke down, admitted I was right but she doesn't know what to do. She loves him. I need to let her work it all out for herself don't I? Hate seeing her so sad and upset so much I just blurted it all out. feel I should have kept my big fat mouth shut