Partner sleeping naked...thoughts?

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Partner sleeping naked...thoughts?

What are your thoughts on partners sleeping naked? I've been dating a guy for two months, and he has has told me he cannot sleep with clothes. We are both single parents and just haven't had the chance to spend a full night together. I dont know why but it just makes me feel odd thinking about it realistically. He's a warm, wonderful, sexy guy but the thought of cuddling/spooning while im wearing pjs and he's naked just seems strange. I know its really common and I'm probably being silly but I'm keen to hear what other women think on the topic...?

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Anonymous

I really thought your issue was going to involve children in the house or coming in.
I know plenty of nudie sleepers. I don't get how him having clothes on or not, in bed under the covers, negatively affects you. But if it's a deal breaker, know that he won't change.

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Anonymous

Yeah my hubby is a nude sleeper. Also him and the kids just love being named (with underwear) during the day...so weird! However I don’t think it’s strange or a deal breaker if he wants to sleep nude.

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Anonymous

I’m a nudie sleeper. It’s so not a big deal at all. I used to keep a nightie next to the bed in case the kids came in. But seriously, it’s no big deal. I assume you have sex with the guy?? So why would him being naked be an issue? So what if his naked body touches your pjs?

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Anonymous

It's a hygeine thing for me (not knocking any nude sleepers - do you by all means). I just don't want naked, sweaty man booty all over my sheets 😂

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Anonymous

All my partners have slept naked! I rarely have because I'm scared of a fire in the middle of the night and I would have to run out in what i'm wearing 😂

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Rebecca Angus M...

This actually happened to me when I was a teenager! Our house was on fire, myself my sister and my Dad all asleep at the time & next thing I remember is being woken suddenly & thrown out the window (into the fish pond, single story house) naked! I ran back into the burning house to get my boxer shorts and singlet and put them on before the CFA got there. We lost absolutely everything. Not insured. I think of it now and the the things I could have grabbed instead, but I didn't think about anything else in that moment except for not letting the fire brigade seeing me naked, it's crazy

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Anonymous

I'm a nudie sleeper! Hubby is a jocks sleeper :D If my son is having an up/down night I will wear undies and have a tshirt next to the bed in case I need to jump up.

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Anonymous

My partner and I sleep naked. All the time even in winter. Kids sleep in their own beds every night. If I do happen to have to pull our toddler into bed I chuck a nighty on and keep him on my side of the bed or between the top sheet and the doonas. As long as you’re aware and he’s ready with a pair of shorts to put on beside the bed if he needs to get up in a hurry I don’t think there’s a problem with it.

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