Sex questions.. I don’t know where else to ask. 🙈
is it normal for one day sex to feel great, then the next it doesn’t hurt nor feel good though? And also need to use lube?
I feel aroused but my vagina feels otherwise.
Also at times my clitoris feels good to be played with, but almost hurts it feels that good?
Very random questions, please no judgment I’m genuinely curious and dunno where else to ask to see if this is ‘normal’.
As I also find it 90% of the time hard to even orgasm tho it feels extremely good and I don’t actually think it’s my partners fault, more my fault and possible mental/body imagine issues etc
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This happens to me from time to time. It usually goes away on its own. The female body is incredibly complex.
So many things come into play for us.
Go see a gynaecologist, you may have a medical issue.
Totally normal
This happens to me. I’ve found it might be allergy related. The more I have allergies playing up, the more it happens. However, I also have estrogen issues.
Did you use condoms? You might have an allergy to latex or something else. Sometimes not preparing your body before rough sex can cause cuts, rashes, swelling it can be painful
Hon you need to try a little extra self love! Spend some time exploring yourself, trying out things yourself and then share with your partner if you want to. Sometimes it just doesn’t feel good but you can make it better by knowing yourself and your desires better!
Completely normal.