My ex partner left me 6mths ago and shortly after I found out he was cheating. Alot of "heat of the moment" words have been exchanged between us along with his new partner interfering and making snide remarks when it comes to our 2 girls. 6mths down the track and I am well and truly over him and just want to do what is right by my girls regarding visitation etc. He only communicates via text msg and when we are face to face he won't look at me and hardly speaks. I'm at a loss with this behaviour?? He has told me numerous times he is madly in love with her and they are soul mate and so happy. So why can't he face me speak to me and why does he always look and sound miserable I don't get it!
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Because he's afraid if you communicate face to face things will blow out of control and because these situations are just damn awkward sometimes. Don't try and read anything into it beyond that
Maybe its not him on the other end of the txt
Don't read anything into it, his behaviour and happiness, as long as it doesn't affect your daughters, is no longer your problem to deal with. If it really bothers you change how you communicate ie no face to face, use a diary or emails etc.
He probably feels embarassed and ashamed at his behaviour and now can't face you because he feels too guilty!
Maybe he's still got an argumentative attitude but is trying to hold his tongue. How old/ mature is he? Regardless I'd ignore, not your problem