Hi Ladies,
So I have been seeing a guy very casually on and off for a number of years. I've always been single at the times we've been seeing each other, Im not a cheater. I always thought he was single too. But I've just discovered he has a live in girlfriend and they've been seeing each other for about 6mths.
Do I call him on his bullshit behaviour or say nothing and don't continue seeing him? And should I dob him in to the new GF? It's not the first time he's done this.
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I think you just peg him for what he is and move on. Sounds like you never actually had an agreement, just Fwb, which usually end up with someone moving on without telling. Move on and forget him.
Nah, I’d continue shagging him. Not your problem if he’s not honest about having a girlfriend 🤷🏼♀️
Omg 😳
And you're the reason families get destroyed. Wow. Just wow.
If he's cheating on his gf and you have evidence to prove it then she needs to be made aware
I would say nothing to him and just cut contact with him but I would give the gf a heads up. He is just going to find another root on the side and she deserves to know. Even if she doesn't believe you it may make her look into things for herself and discover the truth that way.
If they're living together and OP has actually hooked up with him at that time. If not, it sounds like he's just told her he's got serious with a gf and OP is feeling blindsided, but that doesn't make him a cheater. You'd want to be clear before you go and try to cause hell for people.
He hasn't said a word to me about it. I got sus there was something going on and his FB page revealed the relationship. I don't want to be " the other woman", if it's serious I'll walk away. I don't want the drama.
So to be clear, are you involved with him sexually at the moment, what is the exact situation.
I think it's safe to say she's been sleeping with him in this time frame or else why would she be posting this? Goes without saying!
Not always. Best to be clear before you jump on him.
Wow read the post. Literally would not make any sense if she wasn't currently sleeping with him lol.
'very casually on and off'
They've been seeing each other for about 6 months and already live-in, don't know how serious that is going to be as it sounds like a fucking train wreck already.
You say you thought he was single. Then in the very next paragraph admit he's done this before. You can't really be surprised can you?
It's fair game really if you're not actually in an exclusive relationship with each other
Jfc dob him in already! That poor girl, his a PoS
Set him up and tell her. Get rid of him but make sure she knows then the choice is hers.