Teens and sexuality

Anonymous

Teens and sexuality

Hey all,
Sorry in advance for the novel and thankyou for those that read till the end πŸ’ž
I need some advice, or direction where to get it please
My son told me before he left primary that he thought he was bisexual, we had a good conversation about it and nothing much has been said since. Fast forward a few years and he's now a young man who is struggling with the confusion he feels, I've explained to there is absolutely nothing wrong with liking boys and girls, or just boys for that matter, that he can like who he likes and that I love him very much , my question I guess is how can I be supportive and help him with his journey of self discovery so to speak? Are there things that should be said, or things that shouldn't? I don't want him to feel alone in this. We live in a small town that is incredibly judgemental, I'm scared for him to be able to be himself while he's still at school, purely because he already has a target on his back having ASD and struggles with depressive thoughts, I just want to protect my boy but I'm worried I'll smother him in the process

Posted in:  Teenagers, Tips and Advice, Aspergers & Autism

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Anonymous

Have you tried to get him into headspace? A great male confidant might be helpful

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Anonymous

I would speak to a ASD support service like the I CAN network. It’s run by ASD people and provides mentoring support. I think someone to chat to with ASD even online might be helpful for your son.
Also contact and maybe contact queer life for some support https://qlife.org.au/

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Anonymous

Take him to a child psychologist. No only will it help him now but for the future. Set up a care plan with your dr for 10 free visits. He can get more if needed. They are fantastic and he will always have someone to turn to when he can’t turn to his mum.

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