My birthday was coming up and it coincided with a trip that my husband and I had to take for something else. I suggested we stay on a couple of days cause it was my birthday that week and I thought it would be nice to have a few days relaxing and enjoying ourselves. I work very hard in my role, it’s quite stressful and I was really looking forward to some downtime. I booked the accommodation, dinners, car hire, shows etc, everything for the trip. We were having a great time. I decided that I would like to buy myself a birthday gift, nothing extreme, a few hundred dollars on some clothes. I can afford it, I work hard for my money and no one else is going to buy me a gift so I thought why not. According to my partner I had an ulterior motive for this whole trip, to go shopping. I did actually need to buy some clothes for some work functions that I have coming up but he says I lied to him, and now I feel like absolute crap, sitting in my hotel room crying. He’s having a nap cause he doesn’t want to go anywhere. And I don’t even want to think about my birthday this week..I just want to go home.. did I do the wrong thing?