My ex partner and me have been separated for 18 months now. Issue i have is he is trying to force me out of my 3 kids lives, they live with him at first due to me having to leave and couch surf due to dv against me then they made the decision to stay with him as he is the fun parent. This weekend just gone I have received paperwork of him alledging that I have threatened to harm my children and as a result he wants a no contact dvo.
He has called cops on me everytime I have had the kids longer than he likes he is quite happy to take money for child support and I pay in full for any extras. I call everyday but he listens to all calls or times then and demands kids hang up thats if he even let's them answer. He has blocked my number on my daughters phone and won't give me my sons new phone number, basically goes out of his way to cut me out.
I have started the process for custody but it seems like noone is on my side the cops can't do anything due to no custody paperwork and he has/is using our local charities playing the victim so they are helping him move against.
How do I keep my mental health in check when all I want to do is scream and die at thought of him taking my kids away. This man tore me down our whole relationship and just when I thought I was free he has started a fresh hell using my kids.