Not sure how to feel about my husband searching an escort website

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Not sure how to feel about my husband searching an escort website

My husband (35) works away and I found out he has searched an escort service website (not just an accidental pop up)
I 100% believe he hasn’t seen or even contacted anyone, but I’m hurt that he’s even been on that site.
His excuse is he just wanted to look at the girls like he would with porn and out of curiosity and never actually had any intentions of anything more than that.
I don’t have any issues with watching porn but I feel like this is different, and I find it hard to believe anyone would just innocently look at an escort website. Opinion?

Posted in:  Relationships & Marriage

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Anonymous

Youre in denial but your deep down feeling is right, you search an escort when you want nsa sex.

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Anonymous

I’d be pissed and be even angrier at his pathetic excuse!

I don’t buy his story at all. There is soooo much porn content available his excuse makes zero sense!

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Anonymous

I think if you went through his bank account you would find that he is already sleeping with them

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Anonymous

As an ex sex worker, if they're looking they're buying. Or 'will' buy soon.

Almost all transactions are in cash so you may never see a money trail.

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Anonymous

As a sex worker, you’ve never met the ones that are just curious and don’t go through with it.

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Anonymous

As a sex worker, let me tell you, *aprox 6 out of 10 phonecalls are from men putting their feelers out , calling me, asking loads of questions, then never book. So yes, i got loads of interest weather they booked or not.

I could also see those who looked at my profile. 2000 views a day, 30 calls a day , and 10 bookings a day. *aprox.

So weather they book or not, their interest shows up on my profile. And 5 out of 10 of those *aprox , will call back for an appointment up to 2 years later.

Fact!

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Anonymous

Ok channelle calm down! Some people aren’t up with it like you

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Anonymous

I dunno, I actually look up escorts and see what they’re like and pricing when I’m feeling a bit horny. Just curiosity and it gets me off.

He’s obviously lonely when he is away, if you are willing to make this work - can you consider doing some sexy private shows for him or try sexting?

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Anonymous

Him saying he visited an escort website because he was curious and just wanted to look at it like porn is about as legit as saying he jumps onto uber eats just to look at burgers out of curiosity but he doesn't really want to buy one.

There's a certain level of intent that goes into searching for the services of sex workers, even if he's just "window shopping" for now, he's playing with temptation and there's also the fact that it's attainable if he wanted to persue it - that really differentiates it from porn and that's the part of it that crosses a boundary for me.

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Anonymous

I would absolutely look that up out of curiosity lol. I've never even had a 1 night stand and have only slept with men I was in love with and had been dating for a while though, so the thought that you only look if you're interested isn't true for everyone. I'm not a prude with fantasies either.... I just have no interest in sex if it isn't with someone special. Honestly, I think you need to decide if your husband is trustworthy or not.

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Anonymous

Sorry he works away and escorts are busy in those towns, it’s their biggest earners for these lonely men.!! don’t be fooled. If he didn’t want one then he wouldn’t be on there. I get it he is lonely but he needs to talk to you about that or have him get out of working away now because I can tell you it will ruin your relationship especially if he’s doing that now. My husband got out when I told him enough is enough.

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Anonymous

I have worked with men for a very long time. He was thinking about it for sure! I wouldn’t even believe he didn’t get an escort!

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Anonymous

Hmmmmmmmmmmmm I feel like I call bullshit on this. listen to your gut

My ex husband used to spend money at brothels and come up with all kinds of excuses as to where the money went. Finally one day my gut came up with it and after lots of denials eventually I got to prove it....

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Anonymous

Keep snooping and I’m sure you find your answer but deep down I think you already know.

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