I was recently seeing someone who I really could see a future with, things got really full on pretty quick and was a bit much so we decided to take a step back which ended up with me going back home. We’ve spoken since but after not getting any reply’s for a few days I sent him a text laying out how I felt and asked him to let me know what he wanted in which I got a reply of “fair enough” and then I didn’t hear from him for 2 weeks. We’ve spoken recently but every time I mention any feelings he just replies with an emoji or “ok” or changes the subject completely, he has got a lot going on at the moment but I don’t ask for a lot either.
Is this a sign that I should just let go of the future I thought we had or is there still hope and we will get through it?
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If he isn’t engaging in the chats about emotions it’s because he doesn’t want to engage in those chats. Also he is distancing himself from you by decreasing contact.
It’s over. Don’t waist any more energy on this one.
Dont make excuses for him. He knows what hes doing. And lets be honest, this early on, if hes this cluelessly hurtful, do you want to get into that. I know you want him to be and do but you have to accept what he actually is.
Let go sweetheart.
Jesus, he has told you and shown you that the feelings are one sided. Leave him alone.
You put your heart on the line, a fair enough is a rejection.
Stop contacting him.