Probably a complete tmi here... but I’m absolutely going insane. But I can not for the life of me get myself off. I’m single and have been for years. I’ve also struggled with self satisfaction for years. I’ve tried almost everything I can think of. I’ve spent so much money on all sorts of different toys.
I have a fwb but given the current situation, I can’t have anyone come to the house. Not that it matters because I can’t seem to climax with him either!
I’m terrified that I’m broken for good! I’ve resigned myself to the fact that I’m unlikely to meet a decent guy (I’ve been ‘dating’ for years, so I have been putting myself out there). I need to get this issue sorted before I completely lose the plot. I haven’t had a proper orgasm in like 5 months and it’s really wearing on my mental health.
I wish I was one of these women that didn’t need it, but unfortunately I do.
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Watch porn and flick the bean, no toys ect
Are you on medication?
No, I’m not on any medications.
Are you on antidepressants by any chance?
I discovered it’s a common side effect. I started on some antidepressants a while back, and stopped being able to climax. I was really upset and frustrated and ended up coming off the medication. Apparently, there is one type which doesn’t impact your libido or ability to climax so all is not lost.
My advice is google any medications you might be on for side effects. Then google alternatives. Go to your GP armed with info, and seek their help. Good luck!