This is a pretty tough question to ask & please forgive me if I don’t use the right words.
My son has a street friend who has been diagnosed with ADHD. They play all the time. I always seem to have the kids here at my place after school. The street friend also has a brother who struggles to talk but as of late becomes very violent towards his brother with biting, scratching, kicking/slapping & swearing. My son is an only child, a very quiet kid who likes to keeps to himself. When the kids do get together at mine it usually ends up with tears I guess you could say, dobing & not getting along. My son looks after his things & he has toy cars (Supercars) that he takes very good care of, my son doesn’t like it when the cars end up being played with roughly. Now it’s not just cars, it’s pretty much most of his toys. They usually disagree a lot while playing & the other child will come in & say “John wants me to go home”. So I ask.. Do I need to try & explain to my son that the child is a little different to him & if so how? My child isn’t perfect either & has developmental delays for his age. Gets quite scared around the little brother & feel that’s why I usually have the children at mine. I just don’t know what to do & how to go about things. So this isn’t a once off, it’s all the time. Any advice or help would be appreciated.