I have an issue and positive responses would be great without mentioning vibrators thanks
So mummas how would u feel if ur partner never touched u never cuddled or kissed u and there is no imtacity and ur partner works away alot and ur only communication was messenger and phone calls wen ur partner is free
U found ur partner protective of his fone and leaves the room to talk on the fone
Would u think ur life together is over as everything is one sided or would u think he was cheating cos the fone is alarm bell for me
When ever i post anything on Facebook ur partners friends say nasty things all the time and u feel u cant be romantic or appreciate ur partner outside of ur relationship
My partner is all I have on a adult level as I have no one else I'm not a party girl I prefer to stay at home with my children and be with them then go out or go and do family stuff instead of nursing a head ache
I smoke cigarettes but I dont drink as I have been sober for 9 years and I can have one drink or two and stop cos I can now control myself
So with saying all this wat would u do if my partner was yours how would u handle this
Relationship issues
Relationship issues
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I'd tell him to pick up his game and be a better partner, or pick up bags and show him the door.
I’d tell him he either needs to show some interest or we are done. I’d also expect any partner of mine to tell there friends to pull there heads in, if they are saying nasty things about me online.
You don’t have to drink to have friends and acquaintances. It’s not healthy to rely on one person. So maybe it’s time to rectify that.
This doesn’t sound like a healthy balanced relationship to me, and unless something changes I wouldn’t be hanging around for very long.
If that was my partner I'd be telling him to up his game or it's done. Agree with a previous poster you don't need to drink to have friends and in fact I think that it's very unhealthy to only interact with others while using any form of drug be it alcohol or otherwise. In regard to his friends though- neither you or him can control what they do so if they are mocking you on social media remove them from your contacts or block them altogether. In saying that I am also a believer in keeping relationships off social media for the most part. The only people who need to know that your partner and you love each other on a regular basis are you and your partner so I would keep the public romantic posts to a minimum. The only other thing I might add and it certainly doesn't condone his behaviour is that if he is your only adult social interaction he maybe getting exhausted by having to constantly 'entertain' you - I think its important for your own mental health regardless of what happens with your partner to put yourself out there and make some new friends.
Personally I’d start making preparations to walk
The lack of intimacy and phone thing are definite flags. This happened with my partner- he was in the early stages of an affair, thankfully I trusted my gut and blew it out of the water after two weeks. I still maintain that men are pretty stupid when they think they’re hiding this stuff but only fueling your suspicions.
Have it out with him and lay it on the table
Big hugs xxx