I have a dilemma on my hands. A friend of mine has confided in me that she is having an extramarital affair
I have told her in no uncertain that she is doing the wrong thing. I've advised her to break it off. I have explained all the possible terrible scenarios that can unfold from this affair. There are kids involved on both sides. We've talked at length about what she can do from here on in. but she's not interested.
She's also told me that he won't leave his wife/family, but she is happy to leave her husband. She's confident he will support her financially. She has not thought about the kids - all questions I ask her are met with silence.
None of these things sit right with me and so much to her annoyance I told her that she is doing the wrong thing and that I do not support it.
This has not gone down well. And now she's refusing to speak to me. I am so sad that this might be the end of the friendship but I want to be there for her if she ever needs me, when/if things fall apart for her. I feel so torn and sad.