Trigger warning!!
I was with a man for 8 years, put up with abuse mentally and physically! Always tried seeing the best in him and prayed he would change, then not long ago he completely lost it, burnt my car out in my front driveway and lost majority of everything in my home. I have 4 children 3 of which we shared together, i literally didn't think it could of got any worse then that until my baby girl our only daughter came out with any parents worst nightmare! That she has been sexually abuse by her own father everytime i went to work, i never picked it, i feel guilty and play it over and over in my head as to why i never seen it, how the hell could he have done such a thing to our little girl 😔 my worst nightmare has came true and i don't know how to cope with it all, I'm trying to stay focused and will do anything possible to make him pay for it, but my poor little girl has to now live the rest of her life knowing what he done to her, I moved state and have to stay strong for my babies but i honestly don't know how to get through this! I feel like i have failed as a mum and don't ever think ill ever come back from this.
The man i onced loved and was planning on marrying turned out to be a monster!!
Abuse and sexual abuse!
Abuse and sexual abuse!
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Relationships & Marriage, Mental Health, Loss & Grief, Parenthood Guilt
5 Replies
Time to get yourself some counselling
Speak to the police involved in your case. Tell them you need help and they will put you in touch with counselling services. I have walked your path and the feeling of failure almost consumed me. I thought I’d never rise again. But with counselling support for us all we have found a strength none of us knew we had.you can do it. But I’m sorry you have to
Omg you poor mummy. You haven’t failed her. You dirty rotten filthy pig of an ex has failed her. He is the lowest of the lowest scum to walk this earth. This has made me feel so sick reading this. I hope she is getting professional help and I hope this man is brought to justice. Your poor baby. I feel for your both. Keep fighting and have this man locked away. Warn anyone who comes into contact with him. How sickening. Please seek help for yourself and do not blame yourself. He is an evil
Monster.
Just want to inform the negative people that have commented on my post that i have been to the police and i am doing everything possible to have him pay for what he has done, i know the court process will be long but my daughter will be getting justice no matter what! And yes i am not just focusing on me for a matter of fact i want my daughter to get much needed help firstly.
I am a mother seeking help and ways to cope with what this monster has done so i can be the best mother and provide the much needed support that my daughter needs and my other children for that matter. Thank you to everyone that has commented with there thoughtful words ❤
Hugs to you mammy. You will get the help you need for your girl, take some for your self too. I'm sure you will have bad days, but be strong and brave for your family. I'm sorry to hear your going through this, I hope you can see some light at the end of the tunnel 💕🌼