Hi, i feel as though I have been backed into a corner. My husband has had his own business for 10 years, it has got us by but never been successful. There are a few reasons why, my husband is not a business man he is too nice, he can't manage his time or his paperwork and has never let me help. After borrowing money twice against the house and maxing out a credit card twice to pay tax debts we are now in about 35k debt. He promised me that he would give it until March to turn it around and it hadn't worked I knew it wouldn't we have had these conversations every 6 to 12 months for the last 5 years. With his new plans to generate more money ect I'm at the point where I'm choosing to not live like this anymore we have assets worth more than 50k and I want us to sell them to pay our debts and for him to find different employment. I work part time and care for our 3 children too. He is so stuck and can't see reason it is so difficult to speak to him. He hasn't even paid him self super in 10 years. We are nearly 40 and I am scared for our future. I'm in a position if he doesn't sell the assets and find new work I don't want to stay with him, we can live separately. I feel so torn and am so mad at him for being so bloody unreasonable. What would you Do??