When is it enough?
How many chances do you give a partner for an addiction (gambling - pokies)?
We've been married for just over 8 years, and we were supposed to go on a holiday for 4 days over Christmas. A week before the said holiday he went and gambled his pay (same day).
Now my issue is, he thinks it's all about the money. Mine is, he's not understanding that it's the principal of having so many, many chances, and still not learning there's an issue.
And yes, I've tried asking him to go to see a professional councillor. And he won't.
I've kicked him out, and yet there is still no apology. But responding with blackmail and manipulation. And wanting to come back.
So the question is, how many chances do you give someone?