I know i can't be the only mother in the world that sits down after a long day, of juggling and planning, working, running errands, referring and all the above and feel like absolutely no-one hears me and overwhelmingly lonely.
Where are my kind of people. Its like noone that surrounds me understands.
Feeling outdated.
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I think every mother is the same in some ways dear !
What I have learnt is that when we try do it all we get sobering down and forget about no. 1
Take some time if you can have a bath have a walk , go catch up with good people and wake up everyday for you and say wow today I'll do these 5 things for me be it have a cuppa read a chapter listen to some feel good songs, and tell yourself shit the house is a dump but my kids are happy no matter what
No one cares about us sadly in the grand scheme of things the only person going to appreciate all you do is you and when you do that wow will you feel better
One life and well milk that for everything leave everyone else to it and when you do start to empower yourself and grasp how great you are others will notice
No One really cares they say they do and they may mean it but true satisfaction comes from with in and believe me I have swam in misery for so long that when I reached in to myself remembered exactly how bloody amazing I was and you will also x
Oh wow I feel the same way. Like im in the wrong lifetime or something?
I dont seem to like or 'get' the world around me, and man its depressing!
Oh I certainly do! I feel like that most days lately. I feel like parenting and schooling has gone too far. When do kids get down time? Why is the school curriculum so crowded with too many extra things? Why are we pushing our kids so hard to grow and learn faster? Why are we wrapping our kids in cotton wool from the real world?
I actually feel like I’m in the wrong era too when it comes to social things. I’d much rather pop over for a cuppa and chat than sms, or read a book or play a board game rather than play apps, or play with my kids and get outside rather than doing their unnecessary homework and many extra activities.
I also like some technology but honestly, I think it’s taking over way too much!
I’d like to meet others who feel like this too!