Ex army mum seperated 7 years

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Ex army mum seperated 7 years

Ex army mum , I was married to an amazing man whom was military ( army) he left the army and became
Abusive, ex afghan Timor hes spent many months in hospital but he's allowed to by his partner.. there has been no issues over the past 7 years but now he wants me back, I would never have Considered It. But perhaps I'm
Lonely . And I am .. talk sense into me

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Anonymous

Allowed to what by his partner? Be abusive? Be in hospital?
Sorry its hard to understand the details but generally abusive, ex and reconcile doesnt seem like a great idea.

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Anonymous

Can you please edit for clarity please?

But abuse, I wouldn't even consider it without his psychiatrists/psychologist supervising.

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Anonymous

It's never a good idea to relive the past. There was abuse involved as well don't you remember how hard it was ?? Where you ever happy ?? Do you want to take that risk again ?? He needs to repair himself you can't change him or fix him. Don't be fooled, it's all fun and games until you are settled into a rountine then bam!! I would rather be alone then deal with an abusive train wreck.

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