Very long story short.....after a horrendous marriage that I jumped into at 18, I have come out the other side. It's been a few years now and much to my surprise I have found my person. I had long ago accepted that the happily ever after with Prince Charming wasn't for me, but here he is, throwing rocks at my window, blasting his boom box with cheesey love songs. The thing is, I'm terrified, I lost so so much in my marriage, that the thought of trying again makes me break out in a cold sweat. He's mentioned it a few times and says I'm the one for him and he'd love to get married and move into together, the whole shabang. I don't want to miss out on experiencing these things with him and moving on with my life and having him in it. But I just can't seem to take that leap. How have you lovely IM's done it? How did you dust off and try again?