I hate my life so much right now. I have such a shitty miserable relationship. My partner hates me a has a go at me for a lot of things. I work part time and am constantly told this is not good enough even though we have 2 kids aged 2 and 4. I'm told I spend all the money that I don't earn and am to scared to spend money. I want to leave but don't know how to. My self esteem is so low and I'm now suffering from anxiety.
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Are you seeing a psychologist? If you aren't get a referral from your GP. If not a psychologist a social worker or counsellor.
Believe it or not psychologists can help you take practical steps to move forward in life.
They can help link you to services, point you in the right direction, help you take the steps you need to and enotionally support you a long the way.
Paychologist. Youre miserable and broken with him. You will be amazing without him doing this to you. Go and get your self back.
I would definitely go and see a psychologist. Don't believe the things your partner say to you he sounds like a pig. Get yourself together and move on. Your partner won't change xx
No one has the right to treat you this way. You and your children deserve to be treated with love and respect.
Pack up your car with essentials, go stay with family, friends or a shelter.
Text your partner and tell him you are taking a break.
In time, see if he will agree to counselling, then maybe couples counselling.
But if you dont see positive changes in him, then you never will.
Your deserve to be happy, and so do your children.
Good luck, you can do this x
You just leave... It IS that simple... No one ever knows how, you figure it out along the way... Go stay with a parent/sibling/friend until you can figure the next step out, but go, now...