Ok IMs weird question to ask you, my dh got a pm from an old school friend today (who is homosexual) telling him how much he wants his penis and what he would do with it. Before you ask hubby told me to read it as it has made him very uncomfortable with receiving this message and doesn't know how to handle it he is actually thinking of getting rid of Facebook now that's how uncomfortable it has made him feel. Hats off to the guy telling him that he found him attractive back in high school as I felt that took a lot of guts to do but to now tell him what he wants to do to him and what he wished my do would allow him to do to him back in the day is just a bit much. I have suggested to do to either reply and say thanks but no thanks and please don't message this type of thing to me again or just u friend and delete and block him.
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I would handle it exactly the same way I'd handle a straight guy doing this to me.
I'd say 'thanks but no thanks, I'm married and am not gay. Please don't send me these messages again because I'd hate to block an old friend'
I think it's an over reaction to get off Facebook totally. As a single woman I get a message a week from some drunk guy from high school saying that sort of shit! Usually only takes one comment like above and it stops. I had to block one guy who was persistent.
I agree that's the way to handle it. You get these messages weekly? I've been told by old school friends they had a crush on me, but I think sending sexually explicit descriptions crosses the line and would totally creep me out
It used to creep me out. I've become desensitised to it now.
I think being single makes me a bit of a target for every recently divorced drunk guy feeling sorry for themselves. That and I was a dancer in high school so stuck out. I look nothing like a dancer now and I'm very private with my personal pics so I know they are still imagining HS me not me as I am now lol
It is very demeaning because they don't care who you are as a person it's just about what they would 'do' to you.
This answer wins.