Can I ask you just one thing? Just one. If you know someone who has lost a child or someone near. Please don’t ever pretend it never happened.
I’m sad to say that after losing Titan. People would say nothing. The starkness of the “nothing” was far worse than anything they could wrongly say. I know that is a fear for some people. The fear of upsetting the person whom has lost.
The WORST thing any body could do is turn the other cheek and pretend. As a Mother you don’t want your baby to have never meant anything. So much so that people don’t have the courage to say I’m Sorry! Sorry for your loss.
That is all you need to say.
Today I grieve for my baby, Like thousands of other Mothers. I am one of many.
Titan has given me so much, I know he chose me and he is the reason the Imperfect Mum is here he is my guiding light. I talk to him often. He is my inner voice. He guides me, and he is there.
Some days I earn for him. Physically. It’s like I’m being torn in half. But most of the time I am ok as he is with me often.
So from directly from heaven from all the souls that have passed
Please just don’t ever say nothing at all.