I’m feeling rather pissed off and miffed by a comment recently.
I know I shouldn’t. I should be bigger than that. Why should I worry about some random comment? Because I’m human – That’s why..
This comment basically said that I was moderating the page too much and that I should allow debates!! - she said it was like a communist - (or however you freaking spell it) type situation….
I often question what I’m doing, and when someone gives you a harsh blow. It’s really really hard to shake.
I’m not about engage in a debate with another mother. I will support her. I will embrace her. I will worry for her. But I will never put her down. - Hence the reason I do not allow debates or “the like” on I.M.
I embrace differences, I love hearing how others raise their children. I love it when I see our sisters reaching out and helping one another.
I love knowing that when a Mother feels validated and supported it makes her feel normal which in turn makes her happy, it makes her feel connected to something bigger. Happy Mum = Happy Kids…
I do not enjoy seeing stupid fucking debates. You see enough of that shit in the media. And I think it’s important to point out that the page gets more hits and better stats when fights happen. But you know what, I don’t give a fuck about the stats they can go fuck themselves are far as I’m concerned.
I think it’s sad when I see the numbers jumping when there is a debate. – it’s not what I signed up for! -
That’s me! – Take it or leave it. I’m not going to change our culture for you. And I certainly won’t tell you how to do your shit
The 3 things I think a child needs is:
1. To be loved.
2. To be safe.
3. To be happy.
If you are doing those three things well you’re a freaking star.
I.M will NEVER be a page for debates- Sorry sister but if you want debates go somewhere else